Negative Feelings Are In You Not Reality
Insight
De Mello's four-step program insists that any negative feeling toward another is an illusion living inside you, not out in reality, so the cure is never that they must change but that you identify the feeling, see it is yours, and recognize that when you change everything changes.
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